Dilila · @Dilila13
11th Sep 2021 from TwitLonger
Something to get off my chest.
So, for quite a few who follow me. You all know I'm a parent, for those that don't. Now you do.
And this isn't a fun story to tell..... It's taking a lot to not just break down typing this but it's something I feel I need to share, because now.... I legally can.
So the start of this year. Better yet the majority of this year has been fucking shit. And one of the worst things for a parent to imagine.....well it happened to me. In February of this year, I found out that my daughter was assaulted. I won't go into grave details, but just know it wasn't taking all her innocence away. But enough so that she knows far more than she should.
These incidents occured on supervised visits (not by me or my family) with her father....someone she should be able to trust and no longer can and it happened twice from what my daughter told me. Well, when she finally did tell one of the family members ( my mother at the time since she was visiting her right after one of her visits with him. ) The police were called.
Fast forward a bit. He's now taken into custody and sentenced to jail time for a DUI which occurred the previous year. He's now served his time for that. But as of today. September 10th, I found out that he is being sentenced to 7 years for what he did, with potential of more being added. Come the 15th he will be fully charged..... But the thing that pains me right now, isn't the fact that he assaulted our daughter. ( Yes it fucking haunts my dreams and thoughts on the daily knowing what he did to her. ) But it's the fact he also took pictures and video's of it all and posted them up on the internet. (That's how the police ended up catching him by the by) My daughter is up on the internet, and while yes they can be taken down from the sites, how many have saved it? How many have reposted it? And who's keeping it to keep a target on her?
I'm not asking people for pitty or sympathy, while kind words are indeed appreciated.... This was more to let people know exactly what has happened to me this year ( among the plethora of other shit). But it was also to help me gain my thoughts and also aid me in writing my victim statement, not just for myself but also for my daughter. If there is those of you who read this and wish to help me at all find the images or videos that were posted up of her, I have no qualms in giving more details onto what they would have pertained ( since police also gave a bit of a description as to what said images look like.)
Thank you for anyone who has read this. I will be updating in future with pictures of him once the charges have been fully laid come the 15th as well with evidence to show proof of my words being true.