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Corimon · @_corimon

6th Jul 2020 from TwitLonger

Supporting Anonymous with her statement against Nakkiel


Nakkiel cheating on Anonymous is one of PNW's best worst kept secrets, because everyone who knew both of them more than likely was aware of what happened and how Anonymous was being treated. Everyone outside of the "know" will of course just look at this as another toxic relationship because of Nakkiel's statement, but it's very telling that Nakkiel has no empathy for hurting someone else because of how he changed the narrative completely to focus on just how horrible the relationship itself was.

I held out wanting to say anything for so long, because even now, Anonymous isn't asking for Nakkiel to be cancelled and I still don't believe that it's my place to go into detail. I want to contribute to the things that are being said, because it's difficult to see so many people pretend to know everything from a couple of statements on the internet without knowing anyone in question personally. People that are speaking up attesting to Anonymous' story aren't just random people who are ignorant of the situation, they were a part of what was happening because they were friends with both of them.

@MurderJoe lengthy friendship with Nakkiel is true and I will attest to his Twitlonger. He was also the only person Nakkiel said goodbye to when he left for New York, cementing Joe's closeness to Nakkiel:
https://twitter.com/MurderJoe/status/1279958064188272641

@LUEshi781 also made a tweet in relation to Nakkiel, which I will also attest to:
https://twitter.com/LUEshi781/status/1279698284513124352

@zidanel33t released replies on Twitter and I can attest to his recounts and statements being true:
https://twitter.com/zidanel33t/status/1279859515979182085

Her intention for writing about her struggles was just to share and have it off her chest. She didn't name any names, she just wrote about how there were assaults that happened that affects her to this day. Someone approached HER to share the story, because Nakkiel has wronged and upset so many people on his road to making the FGC his livelihood. A lot of people are happy that Nakkiel is being challenged in this way, but they're happy because he did something that wronged them and many others, including lie to their faces, then run away once he was caught.

There are people saying that because it's a relationship, we don't know how they communicated, we don't know all the circumstances, can you really say she was assaulted, etc. There needs to be a baseline understanding that no means no even in relationships, and boundaries can be pushed when they shouldn't be. To downplay that Anonymous felt forced to have sex after saying no is still wrong. This wasn't a story that was created with some ulterior motive, this is someone that was truly hurt, and to take away from that pretending to understand the full story from Nakkiel's statement makes me understand why so many people continue to come out with their own stories of abuse and harassment.

People will continue to sit there and say, "where's the proof?" but those people are exactly why the #MeToo movement exists. It took Jisu fighting so long with minimal "proof" to make Zero admit all of his lies and harassment. She received death threats and continues to do so for "ruining" their favorite top player. This is why people are continuously scared to speak up. It's fantastic that so many people now are supporting victims, and it's important to hear their story. All many people were hoping for was just some growth from Nakkiel, but he's still the same guy that everyone was infuriated with when he left the PNW.

I am personally just disappointed and upset that Anonymous has to deal with this at all. She is one of the most giving and one of the strongest people I have ever met. When the statement was released with her consent, all she was hoping for was an apology. Instead, she and everyone else was given this horrible cookie cutter statement that has zero ownership to the relationship itself, and that's why people who know are starting to speak out against it. It's very telling when a victim feels regret for giving consent on releasing a story that has hurt them deeply.

I want to continue to respect Anonymous' wishes and won't contribute any more toward this, but I want to say that lying to your partner and your friends is horrible in itself, and the people that you've hurt are rightfully upset. I was also in the same exact position over a year ago, with the same exact scene you're fighting against now. And it makes me feel empathetic toward you Nakkiel, because I can understand why you feel the need to continue to run away and not own up to your mistakes. I felt the exact same away. The difference is that I didn't go with that feeling and dig myself deeper into a hole by continuing to lie about my mistakes, I owned up to them with everyone that I hurt. I just hope that you can see that people are genuinely hurt by the things that you do and the lies you continue to feed people. The PNW is filled with so many dynamic, forgiving people who have known you for so long, and just want you to own up to the wrong that you've done them and to someone everyone cares about. I've been in the same scene here for less than half the time you were, but I have at one point wronged them just as badly. And if they can forgive someone they barely know comparatively, I know that you can also make things right with them too.

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