Jameskii

Jameskii · @Jameskii

24th Oct 2019 from TwitLonger

My experience with twomad.


So twomad now tries to twist the situation and get his viewers to attack me. To my surprise he also went to other youtubers to set them up against me. Really fucked up considering what he did to me prior to these events. It's a long read but please do it if you want to know what REALLY happened. There's plenty of screenshots, videos and witnesses to back my words up.
My experience with Twomad especially recently hasn't been very pleasant, neither for me nor for some of our friends. I wanted to keep it in private and not bring it to the public but this has been going for too long and he just tried to manipulate the public, so I had enough of this.

Most recently he lied to me and our mutual friend about getting kicked out of his house and about his financial situation. He was claiming he's only got few months and that he needs help to move to Los Angeles (???). I offered him help because he's my friend and he is only 18 and doesn't understand a lot of shit in life. I convinced my housemate that even though he's young, he's chill and that we can help him out and direct him in the right direction. On top of that I gave him a cut on rent pay for the first few months, so he can save some money.
At the time I didn't know that his intentions were to move to LA weree just for clout but more about that later.

Me and twomad have barely spoke over the last few months for unknown reasons. I didn't have a problem with him despite him knowingly and purposely harassing me in calls and chats. I made it clear multiple times but in almost all of our conversations ever since we've met he continued to harass me over my ptsd speech problems. It's a bit personal topic I don't like to bring to the public. Even though I've improved a lot over the years, he would go as far as to mock me for sounding "alike" to terrorists. I'm used to people harassing me over dumb shit, however when your friend does that purposely to hurt you that raises a lot of concerns.
He wasn't only doing it behind the scenes, back when we used to talk more he'd join my streams and be a dick to me for lols. It wasn't really banter, our conversations would often turn into arguments with me saying that he should stop being a dick and him responding with "why are you mad" kind of childish shit. He would often use the nword to farm emotes in chat even though I asked him not to do it because it made a lot of people myself included uncomfortable. He dropped hard r n word multiple times both in text chat and voice during streams, which is one of the reasons why we kind of stopped streaming together. Shortly after him dropping a few hard r n bombs Twomad received a warning from twitch that he's enabling toxic behavior and should stop immediately. I had nothing to do with this, but he blamed me for it (???). I didn't hold a grudge on him even though that was really stupid.
Getting back to the part with harassment he was using me as a punching bag during the entire 7 hour+ rainbow six tournament this autumn, going as far as encouraging everyone to make fun of my speech problems in front of thousands of viewers at one point, all while saying it behind my back as we couldn't hear him. There's a fine line between banter, roasting your rivals and just being a prick. I didn't know about most of it and I was really confused by this, I got a vibe that twomad held a grudge on me due to the amount of shots he fired at me. I brought it up because I wanted to resolve it and was concerned I might've upset him (We had to reset one of the rounds because my internet went down, twomad didn't want it). He always claimed there's no issue between us. As I was going through the tournament footage (for my videos) I discovered a lot more of his remarks about me as well the speech mocking part I mentioned earlier.
I raised my concern to my R6 tournament teammates about our team potentially upsetting him with the reset and apologized to twomad directly to which he responded as if there was no problem. My friends would often say that twomad just doesn't have any breaks and he just doesn't know when to stop.
Regardless of all that I still used to concider him my friend and continued to help him out, including letting him to live in my house + helping him with his USA visa. I had to guide him through pretty much everything and was willing to do more because I wanted to help. I brought up multiple times that the entire move would be really expensive and potentially not worth it and that his expenses would outweight his income (numbers provided by him), but twomad said that once he has partner status on twitch again he will start making money. He was banned on Twitch before for asking his fan to break the law and climb Abraham Lincoln statue live on twitch during his probation period caused by his previous violations. He's unbanned now but can't monetize his streams.
Despite my concerns about his behavior especially towards me I didn't back down on my offer to help him since he's getting "kicked out".

During September I had multiple conversations with my friends who overheard about him moving to my house. All of my friends said they didn't have a pleasant experience with twomad or knew somebody who would have a word or two about it. Without dropping names all of the friends I spoke to collectively said they wouldn't let twomad in their house, but I imagine it's biased based on their experience with him. Twomad is known for being vengeful, harassing people behind their backs and leaking private conversations with malicious intents.
Some of the people who shared their experience with twomad have raised a question on why does twomad want to move to LA out of all places if he's Canadian, doesn't make much money and getting kicked out of his house. We called him to ask this question because we wanted to make sure he's not going going to regret his sudden decision to move to a foreign country without a proper plan. First of all him "getting kicked out within few months" suddenly changed to "I just wanna move out" and that he wants to move to LA because it's where you "make it big". Huge twist of the situation if you ask me. He also took it as a personal attack, kept assuming we no longer want him in the house or something like that, which we denied. We wanted to make sure he makes right decisions in his life and suggested maybe it would be better for him to move in out in Canada first before moving all the way to LA, we made it clear he can live at our house and that we got no issue with him. According to him he has never paid taxes in his life yet, so he doesn't realize how much money he's about to lose. We tried to explain him that LA is extremely expensive and that he's going to live here at loss and it might not meet his expectations. As I mentioned earlier he just insisted that we wait until he gets partnered yada yada. He also made a patreon few minutes after our call, which is probably a right decision.
I shared this situation "twist" with my close friends asking for help, to which all of them said he might be just taking advantage of me and that I shouldn't let him treat me this way. I gave a benefit of a doubt to it, and excused his actions because he's just young.
He was planning to check out the house during his Visit to LA after Twitchcon. His plans were to stay in Vegas, then San Diego and then at LA. He mentioned multiple times he would visit the house but he never specifically say he would stay at our house, it was always vague and non-specific. He was also staying with other people during the trip instead with us.
At Twitchcon we got to hang out for a bit during some of the days, mostly because he arrived late due to postponing his flight. His reason for not getting on a plane was because there was a guy who had a turban. I hope it's a joke but knowing his racist attitude I doubt it is. We didn't get to do stuff together much because he was mostly with others at the airbnb smoking weed with others and we only got to grab our badges together, get a breakfast and go to bowling once with everyone, although he didn't play at all which is not a big deal, but I wished we got to hang out more.
As you might already know me and Scot had to return back to LA very early since he's got extremely sick and he had to see a doctor asap. He got severe food poisoning and we both got a flu on top of that. We kept sending updates on our condition to twitchcon group chat.
After Twitchcon twomad suddenly messaged me "see you at ur house in la on oct 2nd", to which I responded that me and Scot might be at a hospital and can't hang out as our flu was getting worse. He didn't care about how we feel or what we're going through. He said that he's still coming and that he's gonna stay at my house for 5 days. I was really confused because I knew he was coming to LA but I didn't expect him to stay at my house, I assumed only a visit. There was never a deal but I would still let him in, it was just really unexpected. He kept claiming that we agreed for him to stay for 5 days and accussed that I have some sort of an issue with him, which confused me even more. I called him out on his dumb assumption and he began to guilt trip me for him spending hundreds of dollars and that he can't even show up. Just a clarification that I never said he can't come, I was only confused about his intentions. After making it clear that I'm not claiming that he can't come, just might not be able to stay by himself at the house if I'm at a hospital and I asked him to clarify the part where I told him he could stay at my place, he showed screenshots where I mention that the corner room is reserved for him since he specifically wanted it and that there's no furniture including no mattress. I explained him that it's just a miscommunication and "It's not like I wouldn't let you in the house but you should be more clear next time, alright?". He started guiltripping me even more, at the time I didn't realize he was just being manipulative and I offered to pay full price for a hotel stay in case I'm at hospital and he can't stay at my place. A week in Los Angeles hotel is $1000-2000 if you book it last moment by the way. He continued guilt tripping me. After a few hours I told him that if he promises to take full responsibility for the house I can let him stay in my room even if I'm at hospital. He told me he promises and reminded me it would be cool if I pay for his hotel.

Day before his arrival I asked him for his terminal so I could pick him up and drive to the house. He told me that he will stay with someone else. I suggested we could go to zoo during his visit and he said it might be a good idea. I was upset we didn't get to properly hang out during twitchcon especially since I wanted to know him better. We know each other for years but it was the very first we met in person. Now ever since he came to LA he kept either ghosting me or declining hanging out with me. Most of the time he wouldn't bother responding unless it was too late to go anywhere, while remaining active everywhere else. I was inviting him to a lot of activities like minigolf, zoo, arcade, bowling and batting cages as well as just "hangout". Me and my friends got a vibe he's just purposely avoiding me and I asked him if I could come over and twomad kept insisting I shouldn't worry about it with a really disinginious vibe, I told him these are the only 2 days I can be guaranteed free and that I can pass by tomorrow because I know where his city is, he said gotcha and when I asked for address he suddenly changed his mind and told us we will go cages. He didn't even up telling me the adress or anything, just changed the topic. He did go out that day and when I asked if he went to a cinema (because I was gonna invite him) he said yea. I asked him if it's going to be just him for batting cages or with someone else, since he never made it clear who is he staying with. He said he doesn't think he will be able to go cages and that he will just spend his time at the house. When I suggested to come over he didn't want at first but then he said "aite np lets do it", right in the middle of our conversation he decided to go to sleep and went offline immediately without telling me the address, which made me really uncomfortable. He specifically set his status as invisible just to make it look like he's gone. I asked him to let me know "tomorrow" and went to bed. Fast forwards he's still ghosting me. He was using twitter and instagram, however ignored all my messages. This caused my sleep deprivation, as I was really stressed out and was confused about all this.

I was going to Australia for a few days to hangout with my friends for a bit, I couldn't come to PAX originally due to my and my housemate's condition, so I thought it would be cool to have a good time together after instead. Twomad ignored my messages. When I asked him if he's in Australia he just replied with "sex immediately". I asked him where he is and he just said "perth". I told him I'm coming in 2 days and asked for adresss. He gave me an address and told me to "come anytime". Turns out the address was FAKE. I didn't realize at the time and didn't bother checking, so I just told him that I'll be at melbourne and asked him who he stayed with, he told me he was with Frank from Canada. It was also a lie because everyone knew he stayed with Anything4Views, plus I asked Chad (anything4views) about it and he had no clue. Twomad also lied to me that he will only stay for 5 days, while to everyone else he told he will stay for at least a month. After that he was just ghosting/avoiding me every time I tried to ask him anything.
3 Days later I got invited to a private event, can't say the name of the event yet due to NDA but it's definitely one of the biggest companies in the world and they invited only a few people, so I couldn't pass on it and had to stay in LA. I tried to reach out to Twomad and instead of giving me responses to anything he would just ask me everything back like a parrot. When I told him I'm going to the event, he told me that he's going as well. I didn't know he was invited, so I asked him if he wanted to go somewhere beforehand and he was just dodging me. It really threw me off. He didn't show up at the event, so I messaged him asking him why is it okay to lie to me like this and "what's wrong"? He just used his favorite "I was memeing" shield he uses all the time to avoid the resonsibility for his actions and told me not to worry about HIM. I was still shocked he would treat me like this and on 18th I asked him "You really think it’s fair to lie to me for 2 weeks straight for absolutely no reason? What happened?", he sent me cringe.mp4 file he deleted immediately and then just sent a really shitty image of captain america saying "No, I don't think I will".
I called a trusted person who was at australia with twomad on some of the days, to ask where is twomad and ask about what the fuck is even going on? I was advised to talk about my experience with twomad with Chad. I spoke to Chad about this briefly, at no point I said anything like "don't talk to twomad" yada yada, I just shared my experience and how I feel about it. When Chad was saying that everything seems fine, I told him that's all that matters and I'm just sharing my experience. I don't know what Chad told to twomad, but few minutes later twomad wrote a 1000 word (literally) rant about what a bad person I am yada yada, he twisted the situation multiple times and tried to guilt trip me really hard but it didn't work this time because I could see everything right through. The cherry on top was "quit the pettyness. this is literally the definition of high school drama just leave me alone man". I didn't bring to the public because I didn't want drama, I didn't want our viewers to be involved and I thought he's just a scum person who will move on after this. The only people who knew about the situation at the time were people who were around both of us and just saw it slowly develop. At no point I called anyone up to get them against twomad, the only conversations were just me sharing my experience and asking for advice because at the time I didn't realize I was manipulated. Pretty ironic because twomad allegedly went ahead and started trying to get people against me behind my back almost immediately. Despite the "just me alone man" part he said to me he was tweeting @ me all morning, targeting not just my tweets but also my replies to my fans. He blocked me on twitter, so I couldn't even see his replies. Worth mentioning he has been deleting some of the discord messages and then edited his manipulative rant. Good thing Discord shows the time of his edits. He also deleted me everywhere right after, I got no contact with him.
Form your own conclusions folks. I'm deeply sorry to all the viewers and friends who had to read this.

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