Y'know I've never really seen "gamer" as meaning anything other than games enthusiast, so I'm certainly a gamer and I don't feel there are any negative connotations attached to that, but outside of my profession I dont really feel like it's an important part of my personality. However, I can understand why for some people its an important part of their identity and I dont feel the need to condemn them for that. Well, that was surprisingly not difficult to say in any way. Hmm.