Elegant


Before I get started, I would like to say I am so over smash drama right now. I have a career and life but this incident should be told now. Seeing woman get hurt AFTER this happened to me.. I should have said something sooner. He should have stopped. I told him “if you don’t do it again, I won’t say anything. It’s embarrassing for both of us”. Yet, here he is. Hurting more woman. To you girls who got hurt, I’m sorry I didn’t end him sooner. I should have spoken when this happened. He did it again. Therefore, this is my disgusting story.

A year ago, Elegant came to San Antonio, Texas.
So elegant had admitted to “wanting to get to know me better” which could have meant anything. Friends is what we were and I had no plan of attack here. I wasn’t into him but enjoyed his friendship and company. He was a cool guy I thought. I had no idea he had a crush on me or anything of the sorts. And honestly, I don’t think he ever did. I think he was attracted to my looks but nothing beyond that. Again, assumptions guys.

He flew into town to “visit Texas” and the SA area. I helped him find an Airbnb and I think even helped him pay for it? Don’t quote me on that. It’s a bit fuzzy. I was excited to hang with him. I’m not sure what I expected with a smasher and “normal conversations” but the atmosphere was a bit awkward. I had to work to engage in a comforting conversation. I helped with finding the Airbnb online before him coming (pretty sure I helped pay but don’t remember), and drove all the way to Austin airport to pick him up. I was his escort everywhere for four days. We actually slept in the same air bnb a night or two. Nothing happened whatsoever. He was respectful of boundaries and so was I. I drove him everywhere and we paid for our own meals. We competed in two smash tournys and I took him to main event. Where he met my friends outside of the smash scene. Needless to say, smashers and athletes can be an odd combination so they weren’t getting along. Elegant told my best friends boyfriend that “he hates this shit country” and her bf was in the US army. So that ended horribly.

Here’s where it gets fun. I had other plans one day so I asked my awesome smash crew if they could spend time with elegant and play smash at their apt while I was out. They did and they drank a lot. I drove back to get elegant at 12 midnight because the boys said he was too drunk for him to stay there. I went at MIDNIGHT to get his ass and agreed to let him stay at my parents beautiful home. With me… he was drunk beyond consciousness so I had to help him walk into my house. I still remember him almost breaking his controller against my (new) car getting out. I told him to sleep on the couch in the landing area. I went into my room. Let me add that I’ve let smashers stay at my house before. My crew and one of my best friends. They were always respectful. In the landing where the couch was, my little sisters room was across from mine and my parents room was adjacent. He was in the landing on the couch. At some point between 3 and 4 am, he crept into my room and crawled in bed with me. I didn’t wake up at all. I have no idea what went down when I was sleeping. (My shorts were slightly pulled down but my underwear was ON. (I have no clue what he did.) I didn’t wake up to him crawling in bed with me. I woke up to a warm tickle on my leg and realized he was next to me. He had his dick out and touching my leg. …He was pissing on me and all over my bed. It was aimed at me. ON MY LEG while he was peeing. He was groaning too and touching it. It was ALL over me. I screamed, and punched him in the face (he didn’t feel it. He was still drunk). I jumped out of bed and started hysterically crying and shaking. I was so mad and so ready to throw hands at this guy. My cat was sleeping with me when I went to sleep and then he was hiding under my bed when this happened watching me cry on the floor. He must have ran off and hid when he came in😭 I had never been so repulsed by something in my entire life. I ran to the corner of my room and literally cradled myself. I was so angry I was just punching the wall. Respectfully, I wanted to smash his face in for this. Elegant sat up in my bed and had no idea what was happening. He was still incoherently drunk. His underwear was under my bed at the foot. I got them, chucked them at him and kept yelling. I told him what he did but he wasn’t understanding. He was the drunkest I’ve ever seen someone. My mom heard me crying and peered in a crack in the door. I told her I was okay and nothing happened to my body that I knew of. She said she was going to call 911 but I promised it was okay. I was covered in his piss and told her I was going to shower in her bathroom. I got elegant up, carried him to the bathroom. He vomited and showered I’m assuming. I threw him in the bathroom and told him not to come out until he was showered. I ran to my moms and showered. I scraped my skin so hard it bled. I was so repulsed and angry I did this to myself and family. How could I be this stupid? Letting a stranger in my home? I angrily got dressed and elegant was still incoherent after the “shower”. I told him to put his clothes on and that I was taking him back to Austin a day early. I was done. He was lucky I didn’t make him Uber to Austin. It’s almost a 2 hr drive to the port. He gained coherency in the car. He cried the entire way. I angrily dropped him off and that was the end of it.
I realized my mattress was ruined and I wasn’t sleeping on that shit again. Elegant sent me 600$ to get a new mattress. I spent 1200$ on a new one but he sent me a solid 600. I was so over it and didn’t care at that point.
My family was disappointed in me for bringing him and trusting him. They sat me down and had a long talk with me. I won’t ever do it again. What if he went in my little sisters room? My parents!?
If it was any of their rooms, it would have been a 911 call. This story is gross. I’m repulsed retelling.

I’m above this drama and shit now. But he needs to be humbled. Alcoholism is not a joke. You can be a binge drinker alcoholic and that’s what it is. He needs help.
I’m so sorry I didn’t tell you guys sooner. I’m so sorry to the girls that got hurt. I feel like it’s my fault for not telling everyone. He should have been removed from smash long before. I didn’t say anything and now this happened.

Elegant is a good person when he thinks clearly. But he needs help when it comes to drinking. This incident is absolutely disgusting. My mother and I had to clean my room because it was literally on the walls and floor too..

Sorry for not saying something sooner.
Catch me straight swinging if another smash guy touches me again.

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