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18th Jun 2017 from TwitLonger

In regards to my girlfriend Lauralania missing and the aftermath


To start out, I'd like to thank everyone involved in finding Lauralania. Undrea, Oliver, Jillian, twitch staff, E3 staff, the LAPD and many, many more. It was pretty amazing how quickly we moved, and with urgency. Thank you again.

I've been super quiet on social media regarding the recent events and for a few reasons. One, I don't like social media. A reason being is basically the reason I'm writing this now. Things went from an amazing search effort to an all out spectacle of my private life and relationship. While I opened my DMs for people to communicate me potential information of my missing partner, shortly after being found my inbox and notifications were filled with allegations of her cheating, doing drugs, as well as myself being called a whole thesaurus of words and comments insulting my integrity, manhood and persons in general. Some of you were supportive, sympathetic and offered great advice. I never wanted any of this attention, let alone for it being for doing the right thing. So for those of you who insulted me, and continue to do so, here's a resounding fuck you. Another reason I don't like social media is the proportion to which this grew to post her being found. Yes, I said comments in confidence in a DM that someone posted it publicly with out my consent. I said these comments shortly after getting off the phone with her; which abruptly ended due to her phone dieing again. She wouldn't answer, and the individual caught me at an extremely bad time. I insinuated she may have been cheating on me or on some sort of drug binge, because this wasn't her character to be out of contact for so long. For that I apologize. I rushed to conclusions and let my anger get the best of me.

With that being said, what she did was flat out wrong. She knows it. You know it. I know it. While I've known her she hasn't been one to be out of touch for long, but during her past it wasn't unlike her to unplug from the world and just be alone for awhile. However it was incredibly irresponsible for her to not contact anyone during this time. When she did return to her hotel, she was unaware of the search effort. I was the one to inform her, and I was the first person she contacted via text. She requested me to call her, but during the phone call her phone died. She grabbed two strangers on the street and began informing everyone that she was fine. Finally, her reaction to the search effort shocked a lot of us. You would think that people caring about something like this would warrant a response to those who cared about her much different than how she reacted initially.

So what really happened? I think it's just best to clear up a few rumors.

The hotel she broadcasted from - This was her hotel and hotel room. She was staying there with a female coworker. I knew which hotel she was staying in before the internet super-sleuthed the location and fabricated the idea that she was banging some dude in it.

24 hours no contact? What did she do? - Believe it or not - it's pretty much exactly as she said it was. When I was able to contact her after her friends were able to calm her down out of her panic attacks, I received the whole story in detail. She went to two seperate clubs for a few hours then spent the day at the local casino and lost track of time. This type of night out isn't uncommon for her. A relationship is built around trust, and if someone wants to party all night and have a good time so be it. Hell, I do it. Her claims were matched exactly with her receipts, security footage and many other things. There are other, personal reasons as to what triggered her to do this, but again it's really none of my business to share that with the public.

But bruh, she has all these pics of herself with other dudes but none of you, and your time line has nothing but stuff about her! (or something along these lines) - As I said before. I hate social media. Prior to this, I used twitter to stay in touch with my gaming community and to reach broader audience for my occasional twitch stream. (MONTHLY ERHO STREAM POGCHAMP) My girlfriend loves it and because she loves PDA I do it to make her happy on occasion. As a similar show of affection; I hate pictures being taken of myself or broadcasting my day to day life on my social media. I specifically tell her not to post pictures she takes of us or me as often as she would like. Furthermore, it doesn't take a super detective to see she posts about me very regularly had you followed her at all prior to this event. (Which I know people suggesting this didn't)

As an added comment, if your relationship with your S/O requires them to fill you in every time she/he is MIA for 20 minutes, hell even 4 or 5 hours, then your issues aren't with my relationship it's with yours. Thanks to everyone who informed me of how they would handle this with their partner. Every relationship is different. Mine is not yours and vice versa.

Hopefully this clears things up a bit. Do I think she cheated on me? No. Am I leaving her over what she did? Honestly that's none of your business, and whatever I decide most certainly wont be made available for you to know!

Sorry for spelling or grammatical errors,

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