bangtan smut · @naughtybangtan
29th Jun 2016 from TwitLonger
nsfw masterpost re-updated
{updated x2} nsfw masterpost
nsfw masterpost
this is a masterpost in order to not only educate people on how to preform safe sex but, to also perhaps help some of you smut writers out there who are looking for some guidance!
ff- femalexfemale
htu- how to use
mm- malexmale
ttk- things to know
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aftercare:
-http://www.curvemag.com/Advice/Sexual-Aftercare-370/ (really nicely written and includes some nice aftercare ideas, plus the pics are cute)
-http://www.keepingitkinky.net/bdsm/bdsm-knowledge/aftercare/aftercare-types/ (the types of aftercare)
-http://www.keepingitkinky.net/bdsm/bdsm-knowledge/aftercare/build-aftercare-kit/ (building an aftercare kit!)
-http://www.keepingitkinky.net/bdsm/bdsm-knowledge/aftercare/self-aftercare/ (self aftercare, a very important thing to do)
-http://msbehaved.com/2012/05/09/aftercare/ (not for bdsm but very important to know)
anal:
-http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/blogs/smitten/2014/09/anal-sex-tips
-http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip/534_anal-sex-dos-donts.html
{how to be properly 'clean'}
-Maintaining proper hygiene is not only important for an enjoyable anal sex experience, but your health as well. Cleaning, however. Be careful with over the counter internal cleansing products. They contain harsh ingredients not formulated for the anus. Also, avoid over wiping as this can cause irritation and bleeding. Baby wipes also contain perfumes that can irritate the skin. To properly clean, use premoistened adult wipes, like Charmin Fresh Mates or Kleenex Cottonelle Flushable Wipes.
au stuff:
-http://platonic-otp-prompts.tumblr.com/post/119135169295/au-prompts-masterlist-of-lists
-http://otpprompts.tumblr.com/
-http://auideas.tumblr.com/
-http://rp-au-ideas.tumblr.com/
-http://thewritersarchive.tumblr.com/post/51965789306 (just nice to have for writers)
audio porn:
-bishounenpalace.tumblr.com (mostly male moans; edited audio)
-britishfilth.tumblr.com (a personal fav! also on twitter @audiosexxxual)
-http://www.listentopo.com/listen.html (mostly ff but also some mf)
-http://soundsofpleasure.tumblr.com
body positivity:
{twitter accs}
@BodiPosiLove
@HerASSetstho
@posistrawberry
{tumblr accs}
-stophatingyourbody.tumblr.com
{website}
-thebodypositive.org
cock rings (htu, etc.)
-http://greatlovetoys.com/introduction-cock-rings/ (very good toy review website!)
Greatlovetoys.com also includes items to and to not use and some info on much more
-http://www.marketofpleasure.com/best-cock-rings/
daddy kink (ttk):
-I couldn't find any sources that didn't contain cringe worthy explanations (seriously, if i see the phrase 'little girl submission' one more time I think I'm going to scream)
This is a kink that has become much more popular nowadays and can be used in and out of the bedroom. Typically, in this type of relationship the dom is referred to as 'daddy' while the sub is called baby girl/boy or any other affectionate nickname that the pair has chosen (kitten, baby doll, little one, etc.) This type of thing can be formed from the dom feeling the need to care for somebody in a much bigger way then just normal intimacy or the sub needing to be cared for in this 'bigger way.' Normally, it's a mixture of the two. The 'daddy' sets up rules or guidelines that they go over with their partner (things to allow and things to not allow) and if anything is broken, much like a dom/sub relationship, the sub will be 'punished.' The punishment and safe word should be discussed by the partners and set up beforehand. This kink can be used solely in the bedroom or out of it as well.
dom/sub kink (ttk):
{dom}
-http://msconstanceexplains.com/?p=1802
-http://www.reverendknight.com/agooddominant.html (referrers to the sub always being a women but obviously this is not true at all. a 'sub' can be anyone who enjoys the feeling of 'serving' someone.
-http://servingmaster.com/2012/11/21/the-good-dom/ (very important)
quick thing: dominates don't HAVE to be so 'high and mighty' all the time, don't assume that they're gonna be rigid and tough in all situations. more often then not, a dom cares about their sub very much and isn't afraid to show them.
{spanking}
-http://www.submissiveguide.com/encyclopedia/spanking/
-http://www.prodomme.com/top-ten-spanking-tips
{sub}
-http://www.crowacademy.com/submission.php (okay so the design is a little cheesy but it contains good information)
-http://servingmaster.com/2014/04/24/the-good-submissive/
quick thing: Submissives can be sassy, can talk back a bit, etc. without constant consequence so don't make them into a doormat! A sub's personality is not revolved around being submissive, it's simply a part of them sexually or how they act around their partner. This being said, sub/dom situations can happen outside of the bedroom.
{subspace!}
http://chicomunch.com/publ/basic_info_about_bdsm/bdsm_101_subspace_aftercare_and_sub_drop_and_sometimes_top_drop/1-1-0-23
-http://www.submissiveguide.com/encyclopedia/subspace/
{other}
-http://www.submissiveguide.com/encyclopedia/dominant/ (includes info on safe words and terminology)
general knowledge:
{vulva}
-http://www.scarleteen.com/article/bodies/anatomy_pink_parts_female_sexual_anatomy (the innies & outies of a vagina; if you want to please a lady, you need to know what you're working with. I also recommend everyone to read this, plus; you might learn something about yourself!)
tip: if fingering a somebody with a vagina, curve your fingers up towards their stomach in order to hit the 'g-spot'
{penis}
-http://www.cirp.org/pages/anat/ (much shorter and to the point but very needed!)
how to write smut (ttk);
{casual sex}
-http://www.divinecaroline.com/love-sex/sex-talk/thirteen-types-casual-sex
-http://thorhelps.tumblr.com/post/34355674700
{writing smut for beginners/virgins}
-http://demondreaming.tumblr.com/post/24983394588/a-beginners-guide-to-writing-smut
-http://poshhelpers.tumblr.com/post/41724164666/how-to-smut-for-virgins-getting-started-when-i
-http://thfrustration.tumblr.com/post/30052297693/a-virgins-guide-to-writing-smut
{words to use}
-http://smut-thesaurus.tumblr.com/thesaurus (i'd like every single smut writer to sit down and look at this)
{a huge smut guide from the gods themselves}
-http://writing-references.tumblr.com/smut (SERIOUSLY read this if you want to improve the way you write smut)
intro to bdsm:
-http://www.blueboutique.com/b-d-s-m-2/
-https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201206/loving-introduction-bdsm
{tips}
something to remember: communication in bdsm is key and incredibly important, you need to be able to trust your partner fully.
-http://www.evilmonk.org/a/begintip.cfm
-http://www.thefrisky.com/2015-03-03/5-essential-and-naughty-bdsm-tips-for-beginners/
-http://www.sofeminine.co.uk/sex-sexuality/bdsm-d40704.html
lists of kinks:
-http://blanketfort.uninhibited.net/fics/kink/kink.html (explained too!)
-http://rekink.com/guides/kinks/ (super super useful)
-https://wiki.f-list.net/Suggestions:_Kinks (nice)
{kink prompts/ideas}
-http://phandom-doodles.tumblr.com/post/86601537822/100-kinks-nsfw
-http://phandom-doodles.tumblr.com/post/86601216287/100-kinks-explained
-http://promptgenerator.tumblr.com/kink (i'm gonna do a 100 day challenge based off of this)
lube:
-http://www.marketofpleasure.com/best-personal-lubricant/ (specified for mf BUT very good for all sexualities, kinda it's own lube masterpost)
{purchasing}
-http://www.pinkapple.com/Personal-Lubricants-Online/10/Personal-Lubricants.html (sells much more then just lube, good pricing)
oral:
{blow jobs}
-http://www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/sex/advice/g696/oral-sex-tips/
-https://singlesslamdance.wordpress.com/2014/08/14/lick-it-like-a-lollipop-16-blow-job-dos-and-donts/ (the problem with 'how to give good blowjob' articles is that they're all written by straight men and can sometimes include.. rude statements. this article is very well informative which is why i'm including it, it doesn't mean I agree with these statements.
{cunnilingus}
-http://factslegend.org/20-facts-cunnilingus/ (useful facts!)
http://www.salon.com/2015/02/09/what_men_and_women_need_to_know_about_cunnilingus_partner/
{hand jobs}
-http://www.bustle.com/articles/73605-the-10-best-hand-job-tips-to-remember-next-time-you-want-to-take-him-for
{rimming}
-http://asylumnation.com/asylum/showthread.php?threadid=39283
-http://www.buzzfeed.com/iramadison/how-to-eat-an-ass#.eq39RXl7 (thanks buzzfeed)
-http://www.dearcupid.org/question/when-you-rim-someone-can-you-taste-anything.html (innocent and cute question with some nice answers)
recommended porn blogs:
{twitter}
-https://twitter.com/lesbianslounge (f/f)
-https://twitter.com/Equal_Kinks (more informative then actual porn)
{tumblr}
-asiantwinkhub.tumblr.com (m/m)
-http://lovelywhore.tumblr.com/
-http://s3xcore.tumblr.com/
safe words:
-http://www.katekinsey.com/safewords.html
-http://www.submissiveguide.com/encyclopedia/safeword/
sex gifs (faceless and non):
{twitter}
@SexGifsTweet (aren't very active :( )
@KinkyGifs (some of the non sexual tweets are a lil dumb but the ones that aren't are fantastic)
{tumblr}
-smut-101.tumblr.com
sex toys:
-http://www.refinery29.com/2013/06/48952/best-sex-toys#slide
-http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-relationships/best-couples-sex-toys
{list}
-http://www.cosmopolitan.co.uk/love-sex/sex/tips/g810/fifty-shades-of-grey-top-50-sex-toys/ (okay so normally i would not recommend anything from cosmopolitan because a lot of the sex 'tips' they say suck really bad, so this is a one time thing)
{purchasing}
-http://www.adamandeve.com
-https://www.priscillamccall.com/
-http://thepleasurechest.com/
vibrators:
-http://www.jimmyjane.com/learn/best-sex-positions
-https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201102/vibrators-myths-vs-truth
-http://sexuality.about.com/od/sextoys/a/vibrators.htm
{htu properly}
-http://www.ohjoysextoy.com/
-http://www.yourtango.com/experts/sean-jameson/how-use-vibrator
love you, write happily lovlies !
i'll update this whenever I find anything new
-A