Alain Manés4 · @Alain_Manes4
11th Nov 2015 from TwitLonger
#Pedophilia≠Child Sexual Abuse/Rape. A reflexion.
Hi! :)
Pedophile ≠ Child abuser. Child abusers are defined by their acts; pedophiles are defined by their desires. Do not mistake.
Pedophiles do not choose to be attracted to children. They cannot and must not be blamed for what they feel.
Human sexuality is very spacious, and gives to many manifestations, such as pedophilia. At an early age. It manifests be impossible escaping it and persists for life.
Many pedophiles can resist their urges without needing Isolation, Jail or Therapy.
A growing body of research conducted by leading scientists suggests that a large proportion of pedophiles — maybe a majority—have never touched a child sexually.
Many can resist their urges without it, and we ought to make it easier for them to do the right thing. Making them feel that they are worthless and despised can only make it more difficult for them.
Pedophiles should not be isolated. They suffer depression and drug abuse, which would lead them to commit child sexual abuse.
We should not stigmatize and marginalize those affected, we must help them.
The members of a sexual minority may be particularly valuable members of society, as they have a very different perception of deprivation and exclusion.
Pedophiles,whether they are major or minors, need be accepted by their families,friends, colleagues and the society; not an cure/prison. It's the people like Anonymous, Perverted Justice, To catch a predator, and others, telling them that they is illness/crime that makes them sick/offenders.
A good pedophile never enjoy the pain of a child.
No good pedophile wants and thinks harm to a children. Even in the carnal, whether fantasy, whether real, the pedophile wants the child to enjoy.
In my opinion, in any case, there is nothing wrong if a pedophile takes a prominent position in the society (as a politician,or even a priest, a teacher, a TV producer, or a babysitter) provided assume full responsibility for their sexual preference and can control their behavior safely.
If individuals "report an absence of feelings of guilt, shame, or anxiety about these impulses and are not functionally limited by their paraphilic impulses (according to self-report, objective assessment, or both), and their self-reported and legally recorded histories indicate that they have never acted on their impulses, then these individuals have a pedophilic sexual orientation/interest but not pedophilic disorder."
DSM-5, the psychiatrist's 'bible', 2013.
Alain.