Lætitia ☁️ · @ByLaxtitia
10th Oct 2015 from TwitLonger
The truth about @natebuzz
I didn't want to share this on social networks, but today, Nathaniel Buzolic went way too far this time. He tweeted things about my private life on his personal account, and asked his fans to bully me. I have done absolutely nothing wrong to Nathaniel or his girlfriend, as he said on his Twitter (@natebuzz). So here is the time for the truth to be finally said. I have kept this for myself and my friends since 2013 cause there was no reason to being rude to him.
So here is the story...
2013:
He came to Paris in 2013 for the first time, and me and two friends of mine are big fans of The Vampire Diaries, so we decided to go to the train station to see the actors. One came out of the train, and it was Nathaniel. I didn't really know him, but my friends did. He played in like 2/3 episodes so I didn't really know which character he played. Anyway, we were allowed by Laetitia (the French promoter) to take pictures with him at the train station. Then he left, and said bye. Then, we went to the Park Hyatt hotel to have a drink with my two friends. Then he came in the hotel hallway with his promoter and immediately came to see us. He said that he needed to find a lock for his girlfriend and a SIM card for his phone. We proposed to help him find that as he was alone in Paris, and said to come with him.
Once he bought his stuff, he proposed to take us to lunch as we helped him around. We went to a restaurant and he started to talk about my father, which was a sensitive subject. My friends asked him to stop talking about this, but he kept asking questions about my father, which made me cry for some personal reasons. Then he gave me a tissue and said he was sorry. After lunch, at our table, he took pictures with his phone with me. But didn't proposed to my friends. It was really awkward and I felt bad for my friends. So I asked him to take pictures with them, one took a picture, the other one didn't want cause it wasn't natural. He took his phone and sent me the pictures of him/me/and my friend, to my phone. But it was with his French phone number, so I didn't have his real phone number (from LA). Only him had and saved my number in his phone.
Then, he took a piece of bread and put his ring in it to finally ask me (for joking) "Will you marry me, Laetitia?". That was nice and cute on the moment, but not I find it very awkward. Anyway, he wanted to pay for my lunch (but not my friends) I said no. I hated how he acted and kept talking about something I didn't want to talk about.
After our lunch, he came back with us to his hotel, and saw some fans. He was hiding himself because he wasn't allowed to take pictures with them and asked us to show him the back entrance of the hotel, what we did. That was the first day I met him in 2013.
Then we, and my friends, saw him the next days and took pics with him again. He was really nice, and it was really surprising to see someone so nice to everyone. He followed me on Twitter, DMed me, told me he would be happy to have a drink with me the next year, and always was favoriting my pictures either on Instagram or Twitter. He was really nice.
2014:
During the last year, we kept talking to each other sometimes, and he said that he was coming again to Paris ! We planned to have the drink we couldn't have in 2013, and that's what happened. On the first day, we sent each other DMs on Twitter, and when the night was here, he asked me if I was alone or with my friends to go to a bar with him to have our drink. I said no, I was alone, and then he gave me a rendez-vous to meet him later. He went out of his hotel and sent me a text saying that there was a few fans in front of his hotel, and asked me if there was any fans in front of the bar we wanted to go. And there wasn't. So he took a cab so the fans couldn't follow him where he was going (to meet me at the Costes), which is near his hotel, which was "easier for him".
Once at The Costes, there was a lot of people there, and he kept telling me "I only have 1 hour to stay with you" in a hasty way. I was like, okay... "we can have a drink another day if you like". So he went to the bar and asked for two drinks, he came back a bit upset cause, I quote: "It's fucking expensive here, it costs me 50 euros for only two drinks". I was chocked. I didn't ask him for him to pay my drink, and I hated the fact that he said that, it was expensive, yes, but I would have paid it with pleasure and not say it was expensive... I was really embarrassed. During our drink, he kept telling me how beautiful I was, and we spoke to another couple next to us who were really nice. He looked at his phone and saw the time, it was 1 hour later. He said he had to leave cause he had the convention the next day so he had to get some sleep. We went outside the Costes, and I called a cab to go back home. When I wanted to kiss his cheeks to say goodbye (that's how we say bye in France), he tried to kiss me, on my lips. I first thought it was only an error and didn't want to do that, but then again, when my cab was finally there, he tried again. I didn't let him kiss me, and he was surprised that I didn't want to kiss him back but didn't said anything but "Send me a text when you're home safe. See you tomorrow, darling". Then I went into my cab way home.
I sent him the text that I was home and said "goodnight" to him. He said he was happy to see me and stuff. The next day, we were supposed to go to the Eiffel Tower by night, cause I told him it was beautiful at night. He didn't send me texts the day after we had the drink, oddly, to go see the Eiffel Tower. My friend called me this day, and told me she saw Nathaniel last night (when I left the Costes) leaving with a girl who just joined him after I left. I immediately understood why he wanted to "leave to be in shape for the convention"the next day... It was only to join another girl. Then, I saw he posted a picture of him at the Eiffel Tower with someone else. I was the one who told him to go there, but he went with another girl. That was awkward and didn't explained himself. That's when I started to tell him what I thought about him. I told him how disrespectful he was to me, and that I didn't understand why he acted so nicely since I said "no" when he tried to kiss me, twice.
I sent him a DM to ask him if we could talk, because I didn't understand that his behavior changed from a day to another. He didn't want to see me, and I didn't understand why he didn't want to see me as I did nothing wrong? So my friends came to him at his hotel to talk to him, and said what they thought about him and his bad behavior towards me and them. He was walking straight into his hotel, ignoring his fans, it was late at night, probably 11pm, but he ignored them. And came out to talk to them and saying to them that I acted bad with them, and was saying rude things about him, but the only things I said was that he acted bad. And from French to English, things seem different. My friend spent 10 minutes with him and he finally said that he didn't want to talk to me anymore as I said his truths to him. He also said that "because of us all, he missed some time with his lovely fans while he was talking to us". But he ignored them 10 minutes before. Anyway. He was starting to build me a "bad" image in front of his fans. But a lot of people were here, and they all know and can tell you that all of this story is 100% the truth. Since this day, I didn't want to talk to him anymore, as I saw who he really was. Maybe his ego took a hit, but he's 30+ years old, and I really thought he wouldn't take this really personally when I said no to him. I also met this year, another girl, with who he tried to hang out with also, and didn't want to. Then, he blocked her on Twitter and stuff. Same story, different year. I knew that this "so nice" face was only an appearance. He was acting so differently in front of his fans (where he's totally adorable) and in front of a girl he wanted to hang out.
2015
Since the day I stopped talking to him, nothing happened. He just sent me a few texts but apparently it was a "mistake" and wanted to text his French promoter, who has the same name as me, Laetitia. But it means that he kept my phone number in his phone, while I didn't have his. So I didn't know who was sending me those texts, and I was chocked that it was him, and strange thing was that he came to Paris, the day after. Nathaniel kept telling to some people that I went into his phone, with his private phone code (how am I supposed to know his personal code to enter his iPhone?) to write in MY OWN phone number. What? If you saw the screenshots I posted, in 2013, Nathaniel sent me himself a few texts and told me "I have YOUR number, so next time I'm in Paris we have a drink! Be blessed". Exact words.
Today, on October 10th 2015, I was tweeting my feelings about some things people reported me, that his girlfriend was kind of copying everything I was doing and stalked me. She was doing a Youtube channel 2 days after I started mine, and got similar things on her Twitter/Instagram/Youtube as me. Username, header font, YT, etc. Sounds very childish but it's really awkward to see. I didn't realized it but when people showed me some screenshots about the similar things between my accounts and hers. Anyway. My tweets are mine, and whoever they are addressed to, only belong to me.
Then Nathaniel tweeted something about bloggers. I knew that it was for me. I tweeted back, and then he started to tweet: "This girl is an internet bully who is desperate for attention. Please make her feel important for ten minutes, @ByLaxtitia". So I stopped shutting my mouth, what I did for years, and decided to let his devoted fans that no, he's absolutely not the same guy he wants to show the world. First, the "stalking part" I was tweeting about earlier was 100% true cause he saw my tweets (or she did) and mentioned my new account. Note that I don't follow them, and they don't follow me. That's when everything started for real.
Then you saw the tweets. His reaction. You have your opinion on that.
I never wanted to tell everything in public, or on social medias. This story should only have stayed private, only between Nathaniel and I. But at the moment when you start saying to a girl who has done absolutely nothing to you that she's a bully, how in the world do you expect for me to shut up? I have self control but it went way too far. You knew how to send me private messages for two years, but couldn't say this to me in private ? What was your goal ? Bringing your fans into something that you know you're wrong ? As an adult, you have to know what is right to say and what is not. Twitter is a place for tweeting, not exposing our private lives at this point. Again, I didn't want to start all of this but I told the "whole story" in this TwitLonger.
I don't ask you for you to agree with my thoughts on Nathaniel, that's only what happened.
I guess that's probably what happens when you hurt a man's ego...
Laetitia xx