mirrorshadow

KIM · @mirrorshadow

16th Oct 2014 from TwitLonger

ok i wanted to shut up cuz it might be a stir, bt some r still going on about the signature, so i'll say something about the signature
"mi" is part of his korean nickname "mimi", so it's obviously ok for him to put that on his signature. who says it's for the girl? u say it's for the girl cuz her nickname was PRESUMABLY "kim mimi". there's no proof that he gave his nickname to his gf, her friends called her "mimi" too cuz her real name is "kim sangmi"
changing the signature might have been intended after knowing the coincidence btwn the names bt it's still HIS name. just like how he always writes super junior as well, it's part of him.
let's say it's referring to both her n him for the sake of argument. then it's still part of him, just like how elf n sj are part of him. becuz ppl, he's marrying her, for god's sake, that means they're gonna spend the rest of their life together just like he wants to with elf n sj. he's not just having a bit of fun n paying around the fans while dating, he's starting a new phase in his life. he probably wants us to understand that his gf is now gonna be our family too. demanding sungmin to act only for us in whatever he does isn't really sensible cuz we're all family. if he wants to include her, we can let him include her (after, u know, crying a bit cuz i can't say it isn't a blow). like somebody said, we're Ever Lasting Friends (or Ever Lasting Family), not Ever Lasting Girlfriends
it might have been a lil careless of him yeah, bt u cant jump to conclusions n say he doesn't care abt anything other than his gf or he treats us like shit (look at my previous tweets if u think so). the way he loves his wife-to-be n the way he loves us is COMPLETELY DIFFERENT. do u kick out ur family member or a really close friend just cuz of not being as perfect as u expected? (if u do, then i'm very sad for u) let's face it, do u think all the other members r perfect? this can happen to any other member sooner or later, so r u saying we shud kick out the members one by one until there's nobody left?

n speaking of "kim mimi", in sstp, sungmin didn't say anything about birthdays at all. it was shindong who read out a message from anonymous listener who wanted to celebrate the birthday of someone called "kim mimi" (and this is why everyone's thinking it must be the girl's nickname). if sungmin planned it beforehand for his gf, then surely shindong n members wud have known abt it, which means they were in on it too while pretending otherwise, so r u gonna bash shindong n members as well?

after all, why is this bad? why does this translate into "i don't give a shit abt elf or sj"?
u say ur not mad cuz of him getting married but cuz of how he handled the situation. well, u know what, tbvh, i think the way he handled the situation doesn't matter cuz however he did it, ur gonna be hurt n upset un mad anyway n now it even looks like some of u are making up excuses to hide ur true thoughts n to sound at least a little more reasonable than "oh i hate him cuz he's getting married to a girl other than me". the way he handled the situation isn't even a crime n ur acting like he's some kind of criminal
if ur not in this category, then i'm sorry, this is just my opinion

don't believe the horrible comments abt sungmin that are floating around the place unless u know for sure, cuz i've already seen some that's not true or at least way too exaggerated. they're mostly from antis or elfs whose bias isn't sungmin so they don't know him as much as ming stans do. sungmin might even have been their least favourite in the first place. it's easier for them to spread shit like that, especially at this timing. they're just mad cuz they think their own bias or the group itself is gonna b affected by this whole thing, which isn't necessarily the case.
sungmin's not ruining sj or the career they've built up for the past 10 years. it's us who just need something to blame on, we've been doing pretty bad this year even before the marriage issue. n if it really was gonna ruin everything, or if winning really did matter for sj, members n company wud have been stricter in opposing him. they respect his decision, so should we. sungmin has given up so much for us in the past n he's been part of the 10-year career that sj has achieved (probably a big part of it, cuz ryeowook in sukira once said that almost 80% of sj's strong bond is thanks to sungmin, whether it was his patience or his contribution or whatever. siwon also had said abt sungmin being the leader of sj-m that sungmin's the one who can sacrifice himself the most for the group), n although this cant justify hurting so many ppl at once (so i do understand some ppl feeling disappointed), this definitely isn't the justification for him to leave.

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