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Chris K · @chrisk_allday

20th Nov 2013 from TwitLonger

@johncarloneil @GlennFiller @andyherren My date with #AndyHerren. So a few weeks ago I met a guy on Grindr. We both live in the boystown area of Chicago, so after a few messages we agreed to meet up at The Closet on Broadway. I didn't know this at the time but it was Andy from Big Brother 15. When I got to the bar he seemed like he had already had a few, but was pleasant enough to begin with. He was pretty loud and flamboyant (not exactly my type) and he wasn't very well-dressed, just gray pants and a t-shirt. I didn't know any of this prior to us meeting, because it was only a few messages exchanged and the pictures I saw on his profile didn't exactly show the "true" him. He did warn me beforehand that when he gets really drunk he likes to make out and made it very clear that he was a total bottom if things were to go that far. He had sent a few nude pics, mostly of his ass. His cock pics were obstructed by his hand but I could see that he had short ginger pubes.

After my first drink, he started asking why I didn't recognize him from Big Brother. I told him I didn't really watch the show, and he proceeded to tell me that he won this past season, and that he was pretty much the star. He made it seem like he had fans and supporters and was recognized everywhere he went. One guy did come up to him and say "hi" while we were there.

He said he would have won an extra $20 thousand prize if it weren't rigged for some girl named Elise or something and that he couldn't believe what a fake piece of trash she was. You could tell he really disliked her and it got under his skin that she was well liked by the public. He went on to say she married some old man for money. He kept repeating that he was the star and controlled the entire show and that's why he won the money. I was pretty put-off by his ego.

I could just keep apologizing because I didn't watch the show. He said it was ok because now that he was richer he had a lot of guys hitting on him and offering to buy him drinks.

With every drink he got more and more plastered and it wasn't long before he admitted that people didn't like him very much once he left the show, he was being called a rat and that it really hurt his feelings to go online and see all of the negativity about him. He admitted he had said things about this Elise ladys son and it made the fans of the show mad. When I asked why, he said she had "some ugly retard kid" (his words, not mine) and he doesn't get why fans care anyway. He said he didn't realize what a big impact it would have on him before he did the show. I told him not to worry about it and to just ignore them, but he said he couldn't.

He tried to make out with me, and we did for like two seconds but I honestly wasn't feeling it at all. He smelled of alcohol and his personality just didn't really mesh with mine at all. And I don't use that much tongue on a first date, it's slutty. At this point, I wanted to end the date but he was too drunk to make it home. I had to help him (thankfully he's just 4 blocks from me on Roscoe). Halfway there he puked all over himself and seemed to think it was funny. His roommate was nice enough to get him in. He was nice, and apologized for Andy being this way

It wasn't until I got home and looked Andy up that I realized what a hard time he was having. I had a guy contact me that knows him and he said winning this show was the worst thing to happen to Andy. He's turned into an arrogant asshole that is drunk every day. When I saw Dr.Phil with Todd from the show Survivor I saw Andy one year down the road, so I thought telling my story might warn others and encourage him to seek help. I never any more of his Grindr messages and from what I hear he has moved on but basically pulls the same routine at every gay bar in Chicago.

So yeah, I just wanted you to know that he DOES read everything that is said about him and it DOES bother him a lot. I think he has a problem and maybe if someone out there sees him, they can help him more than I could.

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