This is an open letter that I am writing to express my feelings about the fan base and the situation that occurred recently. I decided to keep my identity private because some Jonas fans can become judgmental and rude when it comes to things like this. I'd rather get my story out there so that I can feel closure about something. My goal isn't to hate on anyone with this post..

I have been a fan of the boys for years now. I feel like I have grown up loving them as if I knew them personally. They have made being a fan such a blessing over the years. Every meeting, concert, and fan experience has been amazing. It's been a way for me to enjoy life and meet new friends who share the same interest as me. Until now. Sadly, I don't feel that way anymore.

In a way I'm ashamed and embarrassed that I have wasted so much time and money on people who don't really care about fans as much anymore. I thought it was because of the immature hate towards Blanda going around that made the fan base fall apart; but it's not like that at all. The last time I met Joe was during The Next NY show. He was so nice and the same sweet guy that he's always been anytime of meeting him! This time it wasn't so sweet. Before anyone jumps to conclusions, I just want to say that I have been a fan of the boys for years and i understand perfectly well that people have off days. I have never been one of those fans that crossed the personal line. I know my place. The way I was treated recently was a stepping stone, and I realize that they are no longer the same people the used to be. I've stood up for them towards haters but now I understand a little bit where they are coming from. When I met him recently he was arrogant and rude. He gave us this rude look and acted like was better then us; not the usual happy to see fans Joe. It felt like he was embarrassed that we were there while he was with a group of friends. I don't know why he was acting that way towards us because it wasn't like we were on personal grounds... this was a public place very early in the day. The words he said to us wasn't anyway to treat your fans and people that you publicly claim to love and appreciate. Nick was the same way when we saw him. He was nice but very stand offish as if he didn't want to stop, but he did anyway. They're not the same with fans as they used to be. I don't blame anyone but the Jonas Brothers themselves. They've forgotten about connecting with fans like they used to. I've noticed a huge change in Joe's attitude and I can't believe I'm about to say this.. but I blame the new friends that he has surrounded himself with. I don't want to put my money and time into something and someone who doesn't care about the fans that have been there from the beginning. Not only have the boys help me decide to no longer be a fan of their band, but the fans have pushed me towards that as well. I don't want to associate with girls and boys who claim to be a family, but have no problem bullying and putting down others. It's not right. You're not the same, and neither are the boys. This has helped me figure out that I need to move on with my life. I was excited for the boys come back but I don't see it going anywhere. Call me a hater now all you want... but I would like to admit to something before it's too late. Why should I CARE about something when they don't?

"People change, promises are broken." - Take A Breath they weren't joking.

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