Love Birds · @LiveLoveeLovato
1st Nov 2010 from Twitlonger
Ok thi is going to be a long twitlonger, but I think I found out what happened with Demi. I'm not sure but I think that it's what happened.
So first off: You probably ask yourself how I came to think I figured it out.
The answer: It has happened to me. I've been there.
Ok. So let's start off with the facts! I think that Demi was emotionally "tired" even before the tour, she was exhausted, the break up, losing her best friend, and even before all that she always had to deal with so much! Her dad going away, her grandfather passed away, all the immense amount of hate towards her, and then being on tour with ex boyfriend and his new girlfriend, noticing that some people don't even want her there.
The very first thing that caught my attention was @stephencbishop he tweeted: "When did making a complete ass of yourself and acting like you have no class become "keeping it real"?"
So what does this tweet tell us? Right. It is directed at the Jonas family, OBVIOUSLY! Something must have happened, probably a fight, a BIG fight, or else he wouldn't have tweeted it, making it obvious that he just called a JB an ass.
Shortly after that tweet, a rumor of her dating Justin came up which caused eveb more hate, she deleted her twitter, and Nolan suddenly tweeted "Messing with the wrong person".
A few hours after this, the JB chat was canceled, due to an explanation that simply screamed "shit has gone down", so the first rumors of Demi being out of tour came up.
Nick then tweeted "Psalm 31" a psalm about needing help, struggling with something. And shortly after this a rumor of Jman being really upset/sad came up and in a matter of minutes, his mom tweeted "Right now I wish I knew someone with a jet" and then "Everything is going to be ok..."
Then a rumor said that Demi was brought to hospital, and finally one that she was diagnosed with Asthma.
Normally in that case, Papa J would have tweeted something, let's move on.
We waited for hours and nothing happened, then fans finally found out that Demi wasn't performing, because of a SIGN in front of the concert hall.
A day went by, then we found out that Demi completely pulled out of the SA tour, and that she is back home in texas, because "she is not feeling well"
So what I think happened is this:
BURNOUT SYNDROME
Think about it, it makes absolutely sense! See, Demi has to deal with so much, but she isn't allowed to express that, and so she just keeps everything in, and when she went on tour things were even worse, she had a lack of sleep, she always had to work and she was away from her family and best friends like Anna, Nolan, Miley etc.
I think that there were also fights/problems with Joe, which made the situation even worse.
A celebrity is always in danger of a burnout, simply because of their lifestyle.
So I think that a fight happened, that just made her crack. She broke down, crying, hyperventilating (that's how they came up with the asthma nonsense) and since a burnout is a serious thing, the only way to handle this without completely messing her up entirely, was to send her home to her family, giving her time and space to get through this hard time.
The thing with a burnout is that it just slowly begins to form. And Demi was always a candidate for a burnout, because of everything she goes through.
The fact that she is out of the tour completely means that she isn't just ill with a sore throat or something. It means that something is definitely wrong, which needs to be fixed and taken care of. ANd the only way to heal a burnout is to solve the problems that caused it, and to be around family and friends.
It's also the reason why no one wants to tell us what's wrong with her. People are already blaming the jonas group. What do you think would people say when they find out that she broke down because of a burnout?
They had to send her home, because if they would let this go on, the next step would have been deep depression and in many cases people kill themselves because they can't take it anymore.
I've been there, I know the symptomes and I know that it IS possible to hide your problems until you crack.
When people hear "burnout" they think of a person that doesn't smile at all, doesn't laugh, is depressed, etc but that's not true.
I laughed, I smiley, I was able to act normal, it's just that it wasn't real. I fooled myself by saying I'm alright, until I couldn't take it anymore. I broke down in school, wasn't able to breathe or talk anymore, I was just so helpless, and they brought me to hospital were a few doctors spoke to me and finally told me that I suffered from a burnout.
And I got better, because I spent a lot time with my family and close friends, I have to admit it took me a while to get better and all, but because I was able to just let go and slowly talk about everything that bothers me, here I am, able to be happy again.